Showing posts with label Chocolate Labrador. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Chocolate Labrador. Show all posts

Tuesday, 13 June 2017

My Labrador was meant to live forever.

Labradors are meant to live forever, aren't they?
Forever being 12 or so years at least.
In the perfect world maybe.
But not in mine.
Letting go of a hound that means the world to you, 
and that has seen you through chaos you never would have expected to face, 
is one of the most difficult decisions I’ve ever had to make.
It all happened SO quickly.
One week from diagnosis to decision.
My beautiful girl was in pain
and I couldn't allow it to continue.
She was my best friend in a furry coat.
My rambling companion.
My photographic buddy.
An ever-present bum waggling presence in my life.

A legendary hound.
We shared SO many adventures.
So many SUNSETS on the beach
SUNRISES too numerous to count.
This image was the last sunrise we watched together and conveys so much.
The bond we shared goes beyond words.
Rugby balls were always her 'thing'
... unless there happened to be a log on the beach.
Logs took preference even over rugby balls.
Especially if they were humungous logs.
Many were the times I'd walk down the beach 
with her plaintively wailing for my help to pick up a log.
Many were the times others succoumbed to that wail,
and she'd trot gleefully down the beach with an enormous log
 that some random passerby had helped her pick up.
She was special.
And she knew it.
Sam was her best 4-legged friend
He was one of the few hounds 'allowed' to help carry a log.
She would grunt and growl to deter him,
and swing her head from side to side.
It worked with rugby balls
but not with these huge logs.
He'd eventually get a grip
and she'd grudgingly let him help her carry it ashore.
Rambling with her by my side gave me no end of pleasure.
I never minded the wet legs and the wet shoes 
from the shower shakes she shared with me.
They were EPIC.
Water droplets EVERYwhere!
On my days off we'd travel further afield.
She loved our adventures and making new friends.
We'd ramble far and wide, for hours on end.
On beaches and in the waves.

Along waterways and estuaries. 
Through parks and reserves.
As long as there was a water source wherever we rambled, she was a happy hound.
Cow troughs at Churchill Park come to mind.
As do the fountains at the Domain.
Those who've never had a special relationship with a dog 
cannot understand the impact this girl had on my life.
She bought SO much joy.
Not only to me, but to so many others too.
She filled a hole in my life that I didn’t know I had.  
Her passing has left the hugest of voids 
and an ache in my heart that is quite unlike anything I’ve ever felt before.
It’s in that ache though that I take solace.  
It reminds me to live life in the moment, as she did.
To find joy in the little things.
To value each experience as it happens.
And to see the beautiful in the ordinary.
This girl taught me so much.
 She helped me climb mountains that I never thought I would conquer. 
She was, and will always be, MY girl.


Tuesday, 10 January 2017

I choose JOY!

In every situation.
In every relationship.
In every ordinary moment.
It’s one of the cornerstones of happiness.
Such a simple choice to make and yet happiness still eludes so many people.
As we fly headlong into another new year 
I need to remind myself to focus on that joy.
Practise an attitude of gratitude and joy will flow.
I’m a happy person by nature, 
a ‘glass half full’ kinda girl.
Even on the dull days, MYdays are bright and interaction with others is always sparkly.
I bubble.
This is a good thing.
MOST of the time.
My JOY is found in the simplest of things.
Walking EVERY day
It’s my daily dose of Vitamin D and fresh air. 
If you don’t have a hound to add humour to the equation, 
beg, borrow or steal one!
Being HAPPY with WHAT I have
and WHERE I am
You can be happy anywhere if you CHOOSE to be.
It’s all about GROWING where you’re PLANTED.
BREATHING it all in and LOVING it all out
I try. I really DO.
But some people turn NOT loving them into an ART form!
Making a BOLD mark, NOT a dull impression
Letting it GO
Period.
CHANGING my words. 
CHANGING my mindset
This makes my head spin and my mind salivate.
It’s so easy to fall into the trap of negativity by the very words we use to communicate. 
ALWAYS doing my best
As both a night owl AND an early riser, 
my ‘best’ changes moment to moment. 
Being my AUTHENTIC self
If I’m true to me then I have no competition.
NO ONE can do ME, like me!
Authenticity acts as a magnet for the right kind of everything in my life.
LOOKING for the beautiful in every day
Beautiful days are NOT the exception any more.
They’re the rule.
So there you have it.
The WOW's in my day that help me FIND joy!